TL;DR: Girl at work seemed interested in person, not as much over text.
She worked with me at this restaurant over the summer. She’s actually the little sister of this guy I’ve been working with for awhile and they’re very close. We would talk a lot during the shift, she would always try to hang around me and keep conversations going. She would blush and smile at me a lot, sometimes even if she was just near me while I was talking to someone else. And she really wanted to hang out with me before leaving for college, so she came over to my place with a friend of hers and hung with me and my roommates. When she saw me last, she waited around when she got off before me to say goodbye and gave me a long hug with her head on my shoulder.
Her body language and the way she acted around me made her definitely seem interested in me, and she added me on multiple social media right after she left. But I’ve been trying to text here and there and it’s not the same. She avoids flirting, can sometimes be dry texting, and I initiate the convo a lot of the time. She’ll always respond if I send her something and usually won’t wait too long either, but i just feel like I built a connection with her before and that maybe something’s been holding her back since. She recently told me she’s moving back to my state soon so I will have a chance to see her more often, but is pursuing her further even worth it?
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It’s perfectly reasonable to think that some people are good texters and some people are bad ones. I don’t think I’d read anything into that.
What I would read into is… you’ve had all of these chances to see if she wants to go do something and haven’t gotten it done.
If she felt like she was putting herself out there she might think you aren’t interested. Or maybe it just doesn’t feel the same now that she’s in college. Maybe try asking her out for real once she comes back.