I went 2 years with no sex after my ex and I broke up. Prior to this I loved sex and it felt great, I could easily go 3-4 rounds. Fast forward to now I’ve been having sex the past month with my new bf and it hurts sometimes. The first few times we had sex hurt a lot because of how long he was lasting (sometimes an hour) my vagina would actually feel bruised inside after and sore. The timing has gotten better although I still wish he would finish a bit faster. It just doesn’t feel the same down there. It’s more sore and I never had soreness before with sex. Now I can only do 1-2 rounds and 3 if I’m pushing. He has an average size penis so it’s not that. I can’t tell if things have changed cause I went 2 years no sex or if there’s something wrong down there.
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I don’t mean this in a bad way but girl, calm down. I’ve seen your multiple, repeated post history and feel for your health anxieties but the best place to address most of your concerns are with your doctor and not a bunch of strangers online.
Now to answer your question, try some lube? It will make it feel a little better because you’re probably experiencing some dryness (not wet enough.) Also try spending more time turning each other on too.
Are you using lube? If that’s not working then make an appointment to talk to your gyn about it. They have prescription lubes that can help if you need it. Nothing you’re saying sounds out of the ordinary but talk to your gyn about it.