Yesterday I tried out some new Sport in University since I havent done that in a while. In school my parents dragged me to different sports to try them. I didn’t do any for long, even though I somewhat wanted to. Weirdly I cant remember why exactly.
In the dresser room after the session the dudes just casually dropped their pants and started small talk with me. I tried to be nice and responded. I avoid looking, only brief eye contact before then leaving.
I was both suprised at how casually they stood around naked and how negativity I reacted to that. I think that would be reason enough for me to never come again.
Wtf is wrong with me?
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You might be worried about the size of your penis
Your mama know you gay?
Kidding aside, you are probably not used to it and are a little insecure about yourself.
It took me a while to get used to it too, actually only learned it by going on holiday with my friends (men and women) and going to the sauna together/ naked swimming.
Once you realise that you don’t care about them and they don’t care about your naked body- it’s all good.
As much as people think this could be some kind of major underlying issue, insecurity or sexuality or whatever, most likely you’re just not used to it. The other guys have gotten used to the idea, you haven’t because you haven’t done it much. In other cultures of the world, it’s perfectly normal to bathe with family, your kids, strangers, or even the other sex and be perfectly normal.
What is it that’s making you so uncomfortable? Seeing some peckers? Liking seeing some peckers? Ashamed of nakedness?
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I’m not judging here, just asking questions you should be asking yourself. Then you might know what it is that is the problem you can address.
Probably just not used to it.
Once you do it a few times… it just kinda becomes routine and it just doesn’t seem like a big deal anymore.
That being said… I dunno why it would be THAT big a deal in the first place… reason enough to never go again? Really? lol
Stand in front of a standing mirror naked and talk to yourself. Get use to naked.
It sounds like you might be conflating being naked with being sexual. Do you see them as equivalent on some level?
Either that or you’re just not comfortable with nudity and would prefer some privacy. Nothing wrong with that – it doesn’t mean you’re a prude etc.
Nudity has a time and place – the locker-room is one of those times, but it’s also subjective. Nothing stopping you from changing at home if it’s a problem for you.
Your brain probably associates naked men with sexual activity (not because you are gay but because you watched porn and the more often you did the more likely your brain made that association)
Nothing wrong with you man. You will get more relaxed the more you do it.
And remember a lot of guys take a quick peek at your junk just to compare that’s all.