I’m trying to figure out what exactly my sexuality is, and I’m kind of at a loss. I’m a 34 year old cis man, and at least 8 years ago, I experimented with men a few times. I loved it. I loved giving blowjobs, I loved being fucked, and I loved the feeling of making them cum on my face or my body. Everything about having a man treat me like a toy turns me on like crazy, except…
I don’t find men attractive. At all. Everything from bellybutton to knees, yes please, I want it, but I’ll pass on everything else. I don’t want to see your face. I don’t want to hear you talk. I just want you to wreck me then go away. Only problem is, this creates a pretty major obstacle between me and getting piped.
Strap-ons are an okay substitute on the occasion that one of my girlfriends is up for it, but I can’t make a toy cum.
I’m not the only one, am I? Has anyone else faced this conundrum and found a way to make it work?
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I’ve seen posts similar to yours in this sub. Most of the men are attracted to or some what attracted to men but have no interest in a romantic relationship with them. The term I’ve seen used is bisexual heteromantic. They’re bisexual men who only have a love interest toward women.
Bukkake Fetishes aren’t rare – only finding the right people is
try to look into a Fetish Club – especially some targeted towards LGBTQ+ – they may have what you’re searching for
I can relate to you on this and definitely feel the same way about being used for pleasure from men or doing someone but don’t find men attractive or would date one
Probably if any of the kinds of pre AIDS clubs still exist you could find a bunch of guys willing to come on or in you in a dark corner.
Many people experience the dual attraction model. You can be heteroromantic bisexual, you can be homoromantic asexual, etc.