I am a very ticklish person, so when my boyfriend goes down on me I will laugh a lot, at least at the beginning. Same thing with neck kisses. My boyfriend seems to be turned off and upset by this, but I can’t help it, I literally have to force myself not to laugh during sexy time. Maybe he thinks I’m making fun of him instead of getting aroused idk. Would you find this upsetting too? How to avoid it?
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My husband doesn’t have an issue with it when it happens to me and I wouldn’t not be bothered by a sexual partner giggling during sex. Talk to your boyfriend and tell him what is going on and why you are laughing at times so he knows.
Reassure them that you laughing is not you laughing at your partner. It’s just how you are reacting to it at that time.
I had to teach my husband to be less ticklish with his hands / mouth. None of that light touching if he doesn’t want to tickle me. Gentle, firm pressure is better.
I think it’s super cute. Me and my partner are both somewhat ticklish so sometimes we end up laughing so much during foreplay, it’s one of my favourite things.
Communication is key here, and I actually think it’s cute. 😊