So I (34F) have been seeing this guy (28M) for a couple months now. We’ve been taking things relatively slow, but we’re active in the sexual sense. One position we’ve been having trouble with is riding. We’re both big people, near 300lbs. Combined with the fact that his penis isn’t exactly big (I’d say 4-5 inches, though I haven’t measured), it seems near impossible. I straddle him, but I can’t seem to get his penis in my vagina in this position. It doesn’t stand when hard, so every time I let go to lower myself down, it falls. How do we solve this problem? I feel like we’ve tried everything.

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  2. There’s a book by Hanne Blank called Big Big Love that I believe has some tips on better sex for fat folks, including respectful and kind commentary on positions. I haven’t read it myself but have heard good things so take this as a secondhand recommendation!

  3. Granted saw this watching porn but the couple did like a scissoring position. But it didn’t look like there was a lot of slipping out. Could be worth a try.

  4. Two things that helped me when I was bigger and riding. I could always ride better on a couch. Him sitting slouched and me on top. Also pillows under my knees when riding on the bed. To offer some suggestions there’s actually some better positions for bigger girls than riding. There’s a great side position.. lie on your right side have him hold up your top leg and fuck you from the back. Great position. Also propping with pillows at the edge of the bed he can hold your legs up. I enjoy standing at the edge of the bed aswell. Keep trying different postions have fun.

  5. My husband and I are a plus size couple. Doggie style is our everything. He feels huge and I feel every ounce. I prefer all 4 on the bed while he stands behind me. It’s chefs kiss!!!

  6. My wife rides me. We are both big (she used to be bigger than me now it’s the opposite) I always joke that she’s getting too much ON her but not enough IN her 😂 anyways… it depends on you physique, men the bigger we are the shorter our pee pee gets. My wife can ride me normal but no reverse cowgirl. We tried and nah it just couldn’t happen Sooo we just laughed it off and I just said well it’s all potatoes no meat until I lose some weight 😂…. It’s all trial an error… and most important: don’t be afraid to fail. Just laugh it off and move on to something else that will satisfy you two!!! Good luck

  7. It looks like it’s just going to be something you have to continue to try more options. Unfortunately being overweight negatively affects just about everything

  9. Lose some weight and you won’t have a problem anymore 🤷‍♂️ should be motivating

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