ok, it seems impossible to find a post like this in all reddit, so here I am.
male, 34 year old, single at the moment, I’ve had several long term relationships, casual sex and other kinky stuff.
now I’m single for over a year and I don’t feel the need for sex or even masturbating. I didn’t check my testosterone because I am gaining muscle mass, have morning wood and when I masturbate I have no problem (some months ago I touched accidentally a girl and had a boner)
has this happened to anyone? maybe I need a connection to have sex?
thanks
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There is no normal or abnormal really, what really matters is to feel physically and mentally good.
Do you? If yes then just don’t worry about it
For me, casual sex is not fun. I Want a connection. You might be the same way.
I realized, I need to have sex to want sex. My libido goes up when I have sex regularly and down after a longer period without. Maybe it’s more about that than the connection?
I need the connection in order to have any sort of satisfaction with a partner. But my libido is always high, I’m always horny, connection or not. So no matter what the circumstance there will be masturbation. I can’t imagine going a couple of days, much less a year, without it.