What can I try to make sex more fun?

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1. You’ll probably get several people saying, introduce some toys! And I’m totally for that, if it’s something you are both open to.

   More spontaneous sex. Risky sex is fun, like as a simple example, in the car somewhere secluded enough you don’t get arrested, but not so much at the same time that keeps it thrilling.

2. This is probably a better question for her, because there is pretty much unlimited possibilities and people have different comfort levels with different things. You could do oral, get a cheap and easy toy to start with (like a vibrating ring), or go extreme. Just talk with each other and see what you want to do.

3. Just Ask her what she wants. You can also buy “sex cards” witch missions, positions etc.

4. Massage sex, glory box, bdsm….
   try to recreate a scene from a porn you both sincerely enjoyed (but if he didn’t, that’ll not work)
   public (forest, toilet,…)
   you could get more ideas just watching weird Japanese shows