I 18 (m) and my partner 19 (m) have been dating for a little over a year now. This has been my first major relationship that has lasted over a year. We recently moved in together with his sister and I’ve been struggling a lot making new friends, socializing, and going out (I don’t know if this is seasonal depression or my autism or both). The thought of new people makes me anxious. My partner recently started a new job and has made a couple of friends which is great. But there’s one specifically that he is constantly talking about. It’s been a week since they’ve really started talking. I would say he talks to her more than me. I don’t know if it’s just my brain telling me this or not but I genuinely feel like he would rather hang out than her than me. He’s been going out and smoking with her a lot. He says she’s a lot like me and his sister. I want him to have friends. Just whenever he brings her up in almost every conversation I don’t know how to respond. It becomes awkward. I’m just telling myself right now that it’s a new friendship and that maybe in a month or two things will die down. I feel like I’m selfish for even thinking these things. I’ve been crying a lot over it recently and he doesn’t know. I don’t know if I should bring it up or talk to him about it? Any advice?

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