Hey, guys. These past few days, my girl has been giving me late replies and all sort of weird vibes? How do I get to tell me what’s wrong? How do I comfort her? We FaceTimed today and she was crying. This isn’t the first time it’s happened. She doesn’t wanna talk and I don’t know why. What can I do? I’m also getting the feeling she’s tired of me, and doesn’t want me anymore. Please help..
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You tell her straight up that you’ve noticed that she’s been down lately and you want her to know that you’re here for her. What ever she’s going through you will support her. Then invite her to talk about what’s been bothering her.
Thank you. I’ll do that and let you know how it goes.
If she’s being weird like that leave the offer to listen to what she has to say otherwise do your thing. If she’s acting suspicious confront, but if she’s saying she needs space it may be time to distance yourself mentally and emotionally.
>she was crying.
See, this is her ‘deal.’ And if she wants to deal with it by herself, you have to let her. She knows she can talk to you about it when she’s ready. Until then, give her the space she asked for.