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Hi all, thanks for taking the time to answer this.
I am 30 and I think I’m a good person. I have a career and will soon make 200k+ soon…. I just never had a relationship or even a serious date. I never had a good that showed that she cared about me or liked me.
Maybe times in the past there were girls I liked and what happened is that they played games with me. I was never desperate I tried to act cool. I promised afterwards that I would never try again and that I jsut want to focus on myself.
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I saw a good at my workplace and sorta tried to get to know her and I feel she doesn’t want to get close to me…. And that once again reinforced the notion that I will always be alone…
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I have been focusing on myself in the meanwhile, exercising, focusing on my career, focusing on hobbies and just trying to be a better person…. I go out with colleagues without this girl and Just try to be good..
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Am I destined to be alone?
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What are some of your good qualities? Not talking job/career.
Get therapy. Your whole attitude and pity party is unattractive
>Am I destined to be alone?
What’s wrong with that? Just live a good life and have fun.
Be happy with what you have instead of crying about the things you don’t.
Lol, getting tired of the “I’m a virgin but super rich” fake posts.
Honestly it could be something as simple as you having crooked teeth. I knew this guy who was on a good income, good career in IT, he was a good guy who lived in a fancy apartment with his brother. He probably would have been attractive if he fixed his teeth. I personally think if you’re earning a good income, you could definitely get braces. I think you going to the gym and focusing on yourself is great.