I’ve seen a lot of reddit posts but this is my first time asking, please be patient and let me know if I need to change anything. I’m 18F, and pretty antisocial, due to general anxiety with people and the state of the world.
I’m pretty sure I’m aromantic, just trying to get more adult experience. I don’t have high expectations, just want to make something like a sex friend without ruining my current relationships or anyone’s feelings – none of my friends are into sex, so anyone I know and trust is out, but everyone I’ve met has been looking for a long-term thing, and my only real relationship was because they made a love confession, so my ex is out too.
I just want to get more experience in the bedroom, and while I’m not totally against lovey couple stuff I find it tiring. Sexting randos is unsatisfying, lying about emotions to get physical contact is draining, and trying to talk to new people and gauging what they want is just general anxiety. I’d like to lay it out on the table without putting off the other person with bluntness. I want to know how to get to the irl sex without getting kidnapped. If anyone can recommend good apps or survival techniques that’d be great, because otherwise, I’m going to google “find sex fast” and go with the first option. Or live just a little pissed off.
TL;DR – virgin trying to fuck w/o getting feelings hurt, assaulted, or killed, would like advice on how to secure a safe sex buddy
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Just say no. Lol. Dont have sex. Do other things. Mutual masturbation with someone you trust not to take it too far.. or find a female friend and experiment. Just to mess around. I get that you want to have sex but it isn’t worth it to risk your health or safety/life with random hookup(s). No matter how much you plan, prepare, think you are safe… something can always go wrong.