I met this guy online (not on a dating app, but like on an online game) and at the beginning I found him interesting so I wanted to know him more. I tried to invite him to play and to talk and blabla all the things to make him understand that I wanted to spend more time with him, right?
When we are in voice chat we talk a lot and stay up till kinda late and it’s fun, but I’m the only one that is messaging him to ask things like what did he do that day or like what is he gonna do (and sometimes I feel like a… Burden? I don’t want to look like the typical person that is bothersome and send 450billions messages…) I wanted to ask him for his insta or like number but now I’m embarrassed to ask Because I feel like he doesn’t want to?
I mean, shouldn’t someone try to reach out sometimes if he’s even a little bit interested? And I’m not talking about love or things like that, I’m talking about “interested in talking with someone or like interested in knowing that person” kinda talk.
Maybe I’m doing something wrong? Should I wait or should I try to send him more message?
I don’t really know what to do…
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The best suggestion I have is to ask for his insta or number when your messaging him and have an open and honest conversation with him. I hope this helps you out.