How can I enjoy oral more

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1. Ask him to shower first , then look for flavored lubes so you can ” flavor it to your liking ” and be at your own pase ,

2. First of all, you should never feel like you need to do something that makes you feel uncomfortable! You should definitely talk to your boyfriend about that.

   But in the end that’s your decision. There are some options like flavoured lube which could make the experience more enjoyable for you – but I still recommend talking about it and maybe finding a way that both parties are happy and nobody feels uncomfortable:)

3. Taste of his dick? Make him wash it lol. Taste of cum? He doesn’t have to finish in your mouth. Don’t have sex you don’t want to have, is rule number one. That said if it’s practical stuff like this, there’s easy ways to make it more enjoyable for you.

   The gagging thing, well.. don’t do stuff that makes you gag. You don’t have to be able to swallow a 12″ dick balls-deep to give an enjoyable BJ, despite what porn says.

4. Don’t blame him. Must feel great. The taste is maybe not washing proper or maybe use some candy if it’s just the skin taste. Is he bigger making you gag a lot? Use your hands to control depth

5. First and foremost – if you really don’t like it, you don’t have to do it. Keep that in mind. What you do is 100% your choice. That said…

   What worked for me was that my first boyfriend was very expressive about how happy it made him. He’d make noises during and show how much he liked it, and for the whole evening afterward he’d be in a good mood, laughing and loving life. He’d tell me often how much he appreciated it and how happy it made him. Over time, my brain overwrote its programming – it changed from “eww this is gross” to “wow it makes him so happy I love seeing that smile on the face of this man I love”. I started genuinely enjoying it after that.

   Maybe ask your man to put some extra effort into showing how happy it makes him?