So after spending time on the NSFW side of reddit I’ve discovered that more straight men are into pegging/anal than I thought. So I was wondering if anyone here has tried pegging or not and what you thought of it?

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  2. 🙋‍♀️ Have worn a strap on and penetrated my husband. It was kinda thrilling to do him from behind. Submissive, but not gay, his naked wife is fucking him, not another man.

  4. i have a man who would pay me to peg him and i’m honestly scared . only reason i haven’t. i’ve known him for years and it just makes me nervous lol

  5. I’m a male 34 married for 12 years. My wife has been pegging me since early in our relationship( when I broke the news to her I like it) but I have been into pegging since I was about 16 when a gf offered if she pegged me. Since than I have been pegged by 5-6 other women. The orgasm from pegging or anal play is unbelievable.

  6. Not yet, but it is on the horizon. For the record I have enjoyed what anal play we have done so far, so I imagine it will be fun too.

  7. I’ve done it many times and like it, but only under specific conditions. Outside of those specific conditions I think it is overrate.

    Also, I’m kinda annoyed its become a bit of a meme, because its meant more women talking a good game about how they want to try pegging, but when it comes down to it they don’t actually like it.

  8. I (F) peg my partner (M), we both love all things ass play. I love the power exchange of it. When hes doing me, hes very dominant and when im pegging him, i feel very dominant.

  11. “Bro, your gay” Naw, men can receive booty hole pleasures and not be gay. And even if you discover that you are possibly Bi, it just means the world became a lot sexier.

    I haven’t, nor would I ask for it, but if my fiancé asked to do it, I’d try it. I have a tiny butt.

  12. 26M straight, I tried it twice with an ex and it was really good. I’ve done a lot of solo anal stuff in the past and it was also good. But for a few years now, it’s fun for a while but eventually too much effort.

  13. Have had it done to me by a few women over the past few years, truly feels like heaven. Nothing makes me cum harder

  14. My wife and I tried this one time for one of our double-digit wedding anniversaries. To do this we got her a harness from [Aslan Leather](https://www.aslanleather.com/) and a collection of different strap ons. We did some research and I joined r/straightpegging but, we didn’t really know what we were doing. In the setup, I cleaned out in the shower with a cleansing bulb beforehand about 3-4 times to make sure it was clean. She was wearing a [Lush internal vibe](https://www.lovense.com/bluetooth-remote-control-vibrator).

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    I’m going to go into additional detail but from a meta perspective, not erotica or wank-bank stuff.

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    This is where things start to go in unexpected directions. She began to get really excited when I applied lube to the strap-on… a sort of penis verisimilitude effect was happening for her. Our best position was me laying on the corner of the bed face down with her penetrating from behind. (Missionary with a pillow under the butt also worked pretty well but it was harder on her cardio.)

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    Honestly, for me the stimulation was okay but I wasn’t going to climax from it. (Maybe because we had never done it before?) For my wife on the other hand, she began to get really aroused and I could hear her approaching an orgasm which must have been a combination of the pressure the strap on was providing her clit, the internal vibrator, and just the sexiness of this weird new thing.

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    It was surreal because I knew I wasn’t going to orgasm but I could hear her getting closer and closer and the penetration of my body was the vehicle for her pleasure. I was a sort of witness to it and she managed to climax twice just from topping.

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    Even if I didn’t climax, it was a positive experience for me. I learned a lot about being the penetrated partner and what it feels like to have someone penetrating you and approaching their own climax; that drive to finish. I was simultaneously out of control of the situation and sort of rooting for her to reach her peak. In the same way that we communicate extensively when I penetrate her anally, we did the same thing for me. (Both of us are really concerned about not hurting out partner.)

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    It helped me to understand why some women say they enjoy sex even when they don’t orgasm. I could feel the intimacy of being along for that wild ride without it feeling like I needed to cash in my own orgasm to appreciate it. For my wife, she also got some perspective about topping, learned that, while cow-girl is exhausting for her, the standing positions are easier on cardio and it eased some of her concerns that she was wearing me out.

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    Did any of this feel gay to me as a straight guy? My dad is gay so I’m pretty comfortable with my sexuality… maybe that mitigates some of the insecurities many straight men might have with this type of sex. The straight up truth is that it still felt entirely like straight sex to me. The differences in roles were really interesting but I’m very confident, based on this experience, that nothing about this is impacting my sexual orientation. Rather, it just gave me more understanding and it was just another sexual adventure with my wife.

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    I know that, given time and practice, the experience can be orgasmic for the man being penetrated so we could potentially try it again.

  15. I pegged my ex. He loved it but for me it made my legs sore. It was hot as hell for foreplay but it would make him come and then he’d be done for the night while I was ready to start. The only turn off about it was that I slipped out once and couldn’t tell so I was just a-bucking away at his thigh. Not a big con, though.

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