Ok so for the past couple of years I have tolerated my husband’s hotwife fantasy. I have shared a lot of my past with him because he likes to hear about it and it leads to passionate sex.
I never took any of the role play serious or thought we would ever act on anything.
The problem I am having is I have had several sex dreams the past month. I had two last week.
The first there was a new incentive program at work where my good performance would be rewarded with a cunnilingus session with a very attractive professional. Stranger yet for my first session my husband was at work with me and I told him that I was about to receive a performance reward. He greeted the professional and left us in a room to complete the deed.
The next dream was much more personal. It started with me running into my ex while out shopping. We innocently talked for a while and at some I let him know I still think about him and bring him up to my husband. At this point he became very passionate with me and we ended up leaving together. The ride was a blur but the dream resumes with us at arriving at his place. It’s all passion from this point forward, we don’t even get to the couch and end up having sex on the floor just beyond the door. We basically have very rough sex and I end up begging for him to finish inside me. He came like crazy inside me and then I woke up.
I woke up extremely wet after both dreams. I am questioning whether we should still role play and what I really desire. I don’t think I would want to risk any damage to our relationship but I am concerned with these dreams and their effect on me.
2 comments
Just because you stop the hotwife roleplays, it doesn’t mean that these dreams will go away. Do all of your intimate encounters with your husband lead to these roleplays or are there times when you are intimate without the hotwife fantasy playing out? My wife and I play out this kind of fantasy sometimes, but we don’t want to act on it, and it’s not the only scenario we use when we are intimate. How are the dreams bothering you besides waking up wet? Have you talked with him about it? Maybe you can work the dreams into your next roleplay scenario.
I say that you should have a good talk about what you both want and expect. Start slowly and then go bigger and more