My girlfriend and I (20M) have been together for 3 years now and have been living together for 6 months. We have had a great relationship and when we have problems we almost always find a solution. I see myself marrying her because she has been such a great pillar in my life and has helped me succeed emotionally and mentally. One thing that we still struggle with is sex. I am very sexual and would love to have sex everyday if it were up to me. She is not and she never initiates, it seems like a chore to her because she always asks me to hurry and she doesn’t say much during sex. I know she can be sexual because in the beginning of our relationship she used to be all over me sexually but I would still initiate it then. I really don’t know what happened but now it seems she doesn’t want to at all. She has said she doesn’t like feeling like a slut and she is still uncomfortable talking about sex openly. I would greatly appreciate any advice on how to address this issue as I ask a lot but never force myself on her but she dislikes how sexual I am and I feel a bit insecure knowing she doesn’t enjoy when we have sex.
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Did anything happen in her life that made her change her mind? Like meet new conservative or religious people? It sounds kinda odd go me that she thinks it makes her a slut if she has sex with her bf.
I can imagine that it’s very difficult to try to enjoy yourself during sex when your partner doesn’t enjoy it. Did something happen? Has there been a significant change in her behavior in other areas? Did it start when you guys moved in together?