My fiancé and I have a really great sex life. She’s the right level of adventurous, submissive sometimes, but also willing to take charge. And, she’s hot.
We have a night in a hotel room, which we try to do at least once a month to get some connection time away from the kids…
Anyway, this time around, we agreed to edge for a full week before our trip with no cumming allowed, and then I get to restrain her hands for the main event. I bought padded adjustable wrist cuffs for her comfort, and am formulating my basic plan of attack… but looking for some great ways to make this the best thing ever…
My current plan is:
1) cuff her hands behind her back
2) a good amount of breast/nipple play (a tickler maybe?)
3) when she’s very warmed up, I will go down on her for a bit (not her preferred main course, so it’ll really be for me)
4) the final course will be making her cum via vibrator on her clit while my penis is just inside her (she likes very shallow penetration when cumming)
I plan to, after getting any other ideas together, share the plan with her for feedback too… and sign off. And cover final ground rules.
So, what did I miss that I should think of?
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Honestly … can’t imagine anything worse than planning out sex like a scripted play, nor discussing it with my partner … just not sexy.
Even if we decide on a BDSM session where I am fully in charge, I might have a general idea but then completely swap out and do something different depending on how things are going.
The video camera? 😏
I personally wouldn’t cuff her hands behind her back if you plan on having her lying back on them, maybe cuff her to a chair or have them above her head. You could try a bit of ice play as well for the nipples? Or keep forcing her to have orgasms? It depends how submissive she wants to go and how dominant you want to be. Think you need to be clear on that before making your plan of action
What no blindfold?
Also get her to put the cuffs on. Two reasons, firstly she gets to set the tightness / comfort level. Added to this is it starts the ‘ceding control aspect’ sooner.
You may also want to consider moving the position of her hands from behind her back to above her head, once you get the the bed stage that is. Hands cuffed behind her back while laying on them can be a tad uncomfortable so above the head will fix that.
>I plan to, after getting any other ideas together,share the plan with her for feedback too… and sign off. And cover final ground rules.
Give yourself top marks for this approach.
Enjoy!
Don’t forget jalapeno peppers to put inside her