I’ve been looking for some pussy eating tips from the internet (reddit), and the most upvoted ones all seem to basically say that its all about teasing her. The way they make it sound, is that the longer i stay away from her erogenous zones (before finally touching them), the better.
I just don’t personally get how this works and why, so it’s kind of hard for me to internalize the knowledge. I mean, if someone was just constantly nibbling my thigh, or whatever the fuck, while i’m expecting to get my dick sucked, i would probably just get annoyed. I would think “could you fucking stop that teasing and suck me off if you’re going to?”
Its also frustrating because there is nothing that turns ME on about this. I like sucking/licking on pussy/tits, but going around them? I’m not just teasing her, i’m teasing myself. Merely imagining doing something like this frustrates me. Can i please stop this already and just go for the treats?
I get that foreplay is not supposed to be a some kind of a robotic ritual you do every time, but a kind of a “play”. Sort of like how its really not that hot (even from a woman to a man) if someone sends you a closeup of their genitals, but it can be really hot to see a pic of them in their underwear. I just feel most instructions “go too far” with the concept, like do you seriously have to do this 15-20min foreplay centered on teasing her every time if you wanna make her cum? Is it really not enough that we make out, kiss, fondle each other, do all that stuff before and during sex?
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If I go down on my fiancé and head right for the clit, I am setting myself up for about a 30-40 minute exercise. On the other hand, if I spend 3 minutes licking or fingering around the outside, doing some gentle teasing, and THEN go for the clit, she is going to have a much better orgasm and I’m only going to have to spend maybe 5 minutes on it.
It sounds like you are more interested in your own pleasure than your partner’s.