There’s this guy (30’s) who is interested in me. A couple of years ago, I thought I was interested in him. We were both sheltered growing up, but I was married before, so I have more sex experience. We were fooling around and mutually masturbating, and he didn’t grab his penis at all. He just calmly rubbed around it. I never saw a guy do this before, so I was taken back at first. I asked him if he could orgasm like that, and he sat there rubbing around the penis, but never touching it and calmly cum shot out. No heavy breathing, no grabbing it and going faster… nothing. I honestly didn’t know guys could cum like this. I asked him to grab it, but he said it felt weird. (He said something like it felt like a bungee cord if he grabbed his penis. Does that mean it’s not all the way hard? It looked erect, but it was also kinda just flopped down/ lying there and didn’t look very lively). Could there be a medical condition of some sort?
Ever since then (as well as for other reasons), I backed away more because I just don’t feel sexually attracted. I’ve partially thought about telling him, but I don’t want him to feel bad if that’s what he enjoys.
Has anyone else had experience with a guy doing this? Could it just be he’s sheltered, a medical condition, not fully hard, or what?
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There people out there, men and women, who can reach an orgasm without direct stimulation of the genitals.