So, my bf (M30) just told me bought a new sex toy. We’re in LDR and I completely understand his needs. However, when he said ‘toy’, I thought it would be a normal fleshtoy. But when he sent me the picture, it’s the silicone one where it mimicked a girl in missionary position with the thigh and a little bit of tummy. For some reason, I feel quite bothered with it. Is my feelings valid?
p/s : i also have a toy myself but its only a vibrator that cannot be put inside. we agreed on no dildo or put anything inside my pussy.
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Why did you agree on no penetrative toys?
Your feelings are always valid, but it’s your responsibility to find out why it bothers you and address that
I mean it’s a bit odd but I mean it could be fun!! You could imagine it’s you when you video call/cam! Specially watching him fuvk it could turn you on! Try if before you knock it lol
Statistically ldr’s don’t work.
It’s a toy, like any other toy and while your feelings are valid, it’s obvious they are coming from a place of insecurity. Wouldn’t you rather see him with a toy than trying to get that desire filled elsewhere?
You really need to evaluate your situation and see if a LDR is really the right situation for you. LDR’s are extremely difficult and once sexual frustration sets in, it’s hard to come back from that.