I’ve always been shy, quiet and conversations have been a struggle for me. But lately I realized that it’s easier for me to talk when I’m talking about myself (and I’m scared I appear selfish from this).
But I’m still struggling of thinking what to say when talking to others about their stuff. How should I improve this??
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Hi, I’ve been there.
When someone else is talking about their stuff, ask questions related to the topic. It will tell the person you are interested. And even if you are not this can steer conversation towards somethig that will be mutually interesting.
When talking about your own stuff, give the person a chance to add a comment or ask something. A long monolog can be boring
Good luck!