While my boyfriend was having sex with me he answered a phone call from his best friend that is a girl, and he continued to have sex with me at the same time he was talking to his friend on the phone. I felt so awkward and I wanted to stop having sex, but I didn’t know what to say, so I just kept going. I’m still bothered by it now, but I don’t know what to say or how to bring it up. I mentioned it after we were done and he said sorry, but I still feel weird about it. Please help.
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Uh…..yeah. That’s weird.
“Hey. I know we talked about it, but I’m still feeling unsettled.”
You should have stopped. First, tell him this is not okay and cannot happen again. Set that boundary. Two, don’t do things you aren’t comfortable with.
What the actual fuck. In what world would he think that was even within light years of ok. Tell him “hey, so I’m still really not cool with this, I can’t believe you answered a call while we were having sex and then continued to have sex with me while talking to someone else. That’s gross and completely inappropriate and I’m really mind boggled that you ever thought that was ok.”
Yeah that’s weird. It could have been a kink he wanted to try as they do this in porn but it should have been discussed before hand. With it being his best gf, it could have been his way to include her in a sexual fantasy hearing her voice but using your body. I had an ex gf do this to me once. I called my mom and then out of no where my gf started giving me a bj. Needless to say I ended the phone call fairly quickly it was weird and even weirder this happened with my mother on the other line. My ex gf later revealed it was a kink she wanted to try while I was on the phone.