What do you for when you’re in a relationship with someone who does not kiss or do any foreplay whatsoever. Hardly any physical touch other than penetration I just don’t feel connected to my partner in that way. I’ve never experienced this before with a partner. What are your experiences and how did you handle the situation?
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You explain to your partner that this is not how sex works. Sex is about connecting and mutual pleasure. You are a human being not a fleshlight. Either he puts in the time and effort to make it good for both of you or no more sex—no more anything.
It’s completely inappropriate for him to just want penetration with no other touch/affection/anything. He’s a selfish, terrible lover and probably not a very kind human being if he doesn’t realize how gross it is to treat you this way.
i talk about it before getting into a relationship. if he is unresponsive or doesn’t change this forever its over. no question