Hi everyone, so this is a bit unusual question but I started to wonder how does rejection feel, I am a guy who is almost 20 and never got rejected by a girl. The thing is I am not super attractive or anything but I am very scared of rejection so I always make my move with girls I am hundred percent sure like me. Whenever I would feel like a girl isn’t interested in me I would just stop trying anything with them. Anyway I realised I am limiting my choices a lot because of this and would like to start dating a girl I am not sure likes me so I would like to know how does it feel if she will reject me, will it cause a lot of awkwardness between us or if it things usually stay all right. Also if you tell a girl you like her and she reject you how is the feeling.
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It depends how much you care about that person.
If you are actively trying to find someone you may need to approach many girls that you barely. Most of the times you will be rejected and you eventually will feel used to it. It won’t hurt much because you aren’t that invested.
It’s like you just have an unending line of questions but the answer to every single one is the same. You still feel so compelled to keep trying to ask in a way that will give you the answer you want, but you have to force yourself to stop asking.