I met Jack (26/M) on tinder. I am 24/F.
We were talking for about a week and a half online after moving to other socials. I never have had conversation with a guy where I’m genuinely able to be myself and the humour is reciprocated. Although I kept my guard up because I have met a lot of guys in person after having great conversations online, and it just being so different.
We met in person a couple of days ago. I remember walking out to his car, he was standing waiting for me (absolutely stunning man) and he was just staring, I asked him how he was and he froze. I got nervous that maybe this was a mistake and he was just going to be completely different from how he was online.
We went on the date, had so much fun. Then after we sat down and had a drink. I think this is when I realised holy shit, this is my person. Looking into his eyes (which I struggle to do with many people) I just felt at peace, safe and calm. I also felt a lot of sexual tension which was also nice.
Since the date we have been messaging and he even admitted when he seen me walk out he froze and thought “that’s my girl” and he sent me a screenshot of a message he sent his friend on our date saying “yep, she’s perfect”. He’s also admitted he’s sent my photos to his friends and said “this girl right here, you watch and I will make her mine”
I know he feels the same. Is this just crazy that I’m already feeling this way about someone so soon???? Has anyone else experienced this??
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You guys are cute.
Obviously it’s rare but it’s wonderful when it happens. I had it happen to me with my ex wife in 2010 I was certain I would marry her from that first conversation when I met her at a fruit stand in China, we are together for 11 years. I felt it again when I met a Polish girl whilst traveling in Romania a few months ago-we only spent two nights together but they were perfect, but we live in different countries so it doesn’t look like it’s going anywhere which is a shame. It’s an amazing feeling.