like, would it be weird to say something? I’m not positive if it tastes weird or not because it occasionally does when meeting my period but I’m paranoid. But I also don’t want him to think I’m gross or something. people that go down on people, would you want someone to tell you?
edit: the title should say getting my period soon so
Edit 2: thank you for all your advice! I definitely want To tell him, but I made the post because I wasn’t sure if that would actually be weird to do lol. I’m just scared of making the situation uncomfortable and ruining the mood
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Yes, mention it in a smooth way lol
When the time comes be truthful, but he may not care. When your getting a little hot and heavy, say something like, “my period is coming up soon just to let you know.”
just tell him it’s shark week and you understand if he doesn’t want to go down while you’re on your period. he can also just lick your clit if he wants to go down, if you’re worried about the flavor.
there is a bit of more metallic taste to it (from my experience), not as strong later in the week when it’s near the end.
I’ve gone down on my wife when she’s on her period. She does not taste any different but she is wearing a tampon though at the time. The string gets annoying lol.
Yes, you should tell him before hand
I’d let him know. Likely won’t stop him.
If/when he’s about to do it, just tell him without anxiety. Something like “My period should arrive in a few days, so I may be tasting weird. If that’s the case just tell me; I could wash it again or we could just stop and do something else”.
Don’t be scared it’s totally ok! You’re human not a sex a doll. Shit like that happens all the time when having sex. He’ll get it, he’s a human too.
Ps. You’re not gonna ruin the mood. It would be ruined if you tasted bad without warning him before. But even then, nothing too bad unless you haven’t washed in days.
As someone that is into period sex and blood, and also enjoys giving oral, tell him.
Better to let him know before there’s a surprise just so he has a heads up and can make his own decision, oral on your period isn’t even a deal breaker normally, but I’d still like to have a heads up.
If you’re worried about actuslly mentioning your period and having him be turned off, I guess I can understand, but if a guy doesn’t know what a period is and how it affects your body even before there’s blood and gets mad or grossed out, you’re just dodging a bullet anyway, it’s a normal body function and if he isn’t msture enough to have that conversation it says more about him.
Your out of commission, are you trying to frighten the poor baxtard
Oh please yes. While some guys don’t mind, many do. I personally would rather abstain from all sexual activity with a girl when she’s on her period, so I’d expect a heads up.