I’m always hearing about how visual men are, so I’m wondering if you do what I do — just close your eyes and imagine a scenario and fantasise a bit.
In general, I don’t use porn and am more likely to imagine what I would want sex to be like, so I’m curious if it’s common with men too.
Also, if you do fantasise about your crush, what are you likely to think about?
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It varies depending on the person, some people fantasies about their crushes and other porn some can do both or imagining their crushes in said porn video.
Yeah I did, but I felt pretty disgusted with myself afterwards like half the times I did it so I avoid that, though I do use my imagination at times to imagine someone that I completely just made up myself with all the beautiful personality and physical features I imagine I’d want
Crushes? What are we back in middle school? In the past yes I could easily get off to just imagining a beautiful woman and visualizing what I’d do to her or what I’d want her do to me. Over the years though I’ve grown to want more than just a quick release so I’ve shied away from that and instead just build up that sexual energy and release it with my partner.
It varies depending on the level of the crush but yea i have. I found a good audio or sex story an imagine it’s them.
I can, but, I typically prefer porn. If I’m making an exception, it’s generally because of a recent encounter with a woman I find attractive enough to fantasize about- hot bartender, cashier, etc.
Yes. Yes.
Yes, always
I rarely masturbate to porn, usually I relive past experiences with ex girlfriends and my wife.
For me not really if at all. If I’m not using porn or a video I took of my fwb while getting some head, I just imagine good sexual experiences with my older or current partner. Nothing more, nothing less. I don’t believe I ever thought of a girl I didn’t have sex with to use for that. My fantasy has already come true which was getting a full bj and she kept going even after I came. I didn’t realize how good that felt until it happened lol. But with a crush I hate to say this but I fantasize when they are around me mainly. I normally think about this one coworker and how if I had a chance and our office was empty I would want her to start slow and rub my back or something like that to set the mood. Also I want her to start it and not make me since I don’t experience that as often as when I was younger. Then I’d like her to tell me soft in my ear that she is gonna suck my dick and after for me to give it to her anyway she prefers. That would make my week lol
I need visual content personally. I can try to imagine it, but it makes it come difficult to finish.
I’ve been fortunate to be able to record a few sessions with partners, and I have those videos if I want to look back on them. Those do get used to masterbate.
i’m a female and i’ve always had this question for both males and females. in a females opinion, i do imagine but also i watch porn. it’s just depends on which one i want to do
I think that if i still wanna fuck her, after im finished, this could be somethin special.
Every fling, every one night stand, every long term relationship, every failed encounter, every crush and mistake is fair game. I get off harder going off my real life experiences than I do porn.
My first 3 years of masturbating on almost a daily basis since the age of 14 has been completely from the help of my thoughts of;
– my crush
– my hypothetical dream girl (after the crush phase)
I started watching porn at about the age of 17. The “porn” simply started with bikini pics, very very soft.
I haven’t ever talked to other men about this, but for me I usually need some kind of external stimulus. It can be visual, like porn or watching my woman, but it could also be sounds.
Just sitting there imagining, I usually can’t get and stay hard enough to get it done, even back when I had the raging hormones of youth. Sometimes, when I am really horny, I can just think about things I have done, or want to do, with my women and that works — but it’s not common.
I am not shaming anyone who has crushes, I reckon my wife has had a few, it just wouldn’t do it for me.
To the thought of them? No.
To the thought of them while watching porn? Yes.
When you see porn that has actresses, or creators that looks and reminds you of someone you know in real life, especially a crush or two, it makes a huge difference.
Now, masturbate is one thing, but to the thought of them without visual content and NO masturbation, it can heighten your mood, erection, and horniness.