Found posts like that, but since every situation differs, im writing that!
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Ill try to keep things as simple as possible.
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So, a friend of mine whom i know for around 10 years, ended his 6-7 years relationship about a year ago.
Their relationship fell apart and he lost interested in her around 2 years ago and now he is with something else, since the break up. She says she is over him and tried to move on by dating someone else but got rejected.
They dont even talk at all, even if they see each other on the street.
Our friendship fell apart aswell, about 2 to 3 years ago if not more, and we barely talk/meet but its like we are not friends.
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Now to get to the point,
Me and some of my friends started going out with his EX (as friends). Each day that passed by and the more learned about her, i was feeling something new and interesting about her.
Of course, my first thought was to try to get rid of those feelings for reason we all know. Fasting forward 2 months, i couldnt (and still cant) get rid of what am feeling for her.
She makes me feel like a different (and better) person when im around her. Just to clarify, i dont feel something sexual/a one time thing, just pure feelings of love.
Im at a point that im daydreaming about her and it affects my life (i cant work efficiently) and my body negatively (since i cant express those feelings to her).
Because i value our friendship, my first thought was to tell him what i feel (in a short message) and ask if that would be okay with him (so i can try to ask her out), and if not that would be understandable (of course).
He just read the message and didnt give an answer, which probably indicates anger?, betrayal by my side? or in general something negative which i didnt want to happen.
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So,
Did i do something wrong?
What other options did i have?
Do you think i should try to avoid both of them or do something else?
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Be honest!