I’ve been dating this woman for a couple months and things have been pretty good. Our personalities match well, sexual chemistry is great and we are always helping each other achieve our goals. I have yet to ask her to be my girlfriend because I’m still healing from my first LTR and I communicated that with her. She’s been very patient with me and I’ve appreciated her for that.
Lately we’ve been spending so much time together. We saw each other every day for 2 weeks straight despite living an hour apart. We’ve even been sleeping on the phone together when we can’t stay the night. I’ve been having a blast even though I’m still a little down. She really knows what she wants which I love about her.
Recently she confessed that she’s in love with me (which shocked me). She said that she feels like she’s found her soulmate and sees a future with me. I was honored by her compliments and reciprocated the feelings, but after thinking about it I just have a hard time believing her.
I think I’m unsure about everything because of how my last relationship ended. I thought I was healed when I moved on (I was the dumper) but I’m not fully over everything. I don’t want to lose such a great person, but I’m lacking confidence. I’ve been trying to understand how a person like her could fall for me after 6 months. What do I do?
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Therapy.