Now i have been trying dating apps for a long time, still very very few matches and those people don’t even reply to hello.
Dont know what is wrong, irl girls or frnds who see my account says “it is good has good bio and pretty good pictures you should be getting more matches” but dk the fuck is no matches 😖, iam over it now.
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Why not post your profile here for more objective feedback? Your friends are going to try and spare your feelings
Those apps are designed to make you pay money to get matches, it’s an evil business model here is [more explaining how it works](https://youtu.be/5h4ZnGGswgg)
I’m new to dating apps, but here’s what I found on Tinder:
When I create a new account I get ~20 likes in the first day or so. After that I don’t get any.
I got the half price first month gold subscription, so I can see who is in my likes. Then I create a new account, transfer my subscription, get the “noob boost” then match with whoever’s in my likes that I would like to match with. I did it yesterday and got 6 matches that evening, 5 of them responded and 1 I transitioned to whatsapp and we’re still chatting. But if I try to use the app “properly”, I don’t even get any likes after the first day, let alone any matches.
I think there’s too many men who are either very attractive and prioritised by the algorithm, or using pay-to-win features like boosts and priority likes, or using the noob boost exploit like I’m doing, that if you try to use the app normally as an average man you’re just going to get buried by the algorithm.
Try the less popular ones. Guys I might get the app flooded, but I had the best luck on the app Boo.
Success on dating apps will be determined by the quality of your photos, your bio, your activity on the app and the messages you send (affects the algorithm).
When it comes to women not replying, or saying anything at all, women respond to the emotion of the moment, the women that match with you are acting on what they see at that moment because they find your pictures attractive, however, women can find somebody attractive but not feel the emotion of attraction. Attraction is an emotional and psychological response that is triggered inside a woman when certain behaviours and actions are displayed for a long and consistent enough time, therefore looks alone are not enough to amp up the attraction that the woman has felt so after she has matched with you, what once she did indeed find attractive unfortunately did not spark attraction.
So this is why you then get left on read, or they decide to unmatch with you.