How much do you express your love for her if you actually love her?

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1. about 5

2. it’s a secret competition. I try to out-love her. hugs. kisses. clean the tub. do the dishes. it should be endless.

3. Not that much. You have to remain just slightly out of reach emotionally, most of the time or women lose interest. Comfort = boredom and boredom = new guy. The cat loses interest when it catches the laser dot. Women have to be striving for something or they lose interest. They want to want something they don’t have. (which condemns them to never being content). Let the cat catch the laser dot once in a while.

   Also being overly gushy tells women that you are needy and that she is the prize. Women don’t want to be the prize. They want to get the prize. They only want men who they feel are better than them. If you put her on a pedestal, you accidentally communicate that she is better than you and that signals to her that she can do better than you. She’ll move on.

   Women’s mating brains really don’t work much like men’s do.

4. Well, what is your love language, and whats her love language? that plays an important part.

5. -12

6. I would just express it a little differently, when she’s stressed out i would establish an escape for her, under a shower, a drive to an restaurant or w/e. Randomly call her or flirt with her, keeping the spice going like it was on the first date. Sometimes i just dumped a hot bed bottle on her belly at shark week. But verbally saying it is not my strength tbh.

7. I do things that make her life easier and constantly want to have her in my arms.

8. Rarely. Men aren’t good at that stuff.

9. As often and sincerely as possible.

10. Tough line, too much and you’re needy, too little and she’ll start to wonder.

11. I’m going to disagree with @buppyu. I tell mine I love them often. I show them more often. I will say, how you do it and how they receive it changes with age and longevity. But, scurry is important for most people. The women I know especially (not true for all women). Clingy is not great, but sincerity is. Tell her how you feel, be direct, and don’t worry about the response.

12. Pretty often with actions and words. I don’t subscribe to those theories that say you need to be unavailable and that sort of stuff, I just do and say what feels good.

13. Well….how do you show love? It’s going to be different for everyone. My girlfriend has been a single mother for 13 years, ex is a deadbeat, she is incredibly independent and capable and has done everything by herself for a long time. So now she has love shown by me doing things (without her asking or prompting) that she would have always had to do but were an annoyance or difficult or stress inducing or that she just plain hated doing. And ya I spoil her and her daughter when it comes to birthdays, Christmas etc, becuase frankly after doing everything on their own for as long as they have they deserve to be spoiled.