We’ve been together for 6 months and things are awesome between us. We are both undertaking an undergraduate degree and there are still 18 months of it ahead of us. Unfortunately we live far from each other and are able to meet just twice in a week (excluding university). Once I pick her up by car, and another time she comes by train. We still live with our family and there’s never any room for us. We can’t really work and live together because there are no jobs available and studying takes all our time. The only way we can have sex is inside my dad’s car and maybe once every 90 years at mine’s when my parents are not at home (her parents are retired and never leave). I’m talking about roughly 4 times a month and honestly it’s getting frustrating. She doesn’t want to rent a room for a couple of hours because they’re filthy and I’ve got nothing to say against it. We’ve had sex different times in public because we get horny very often and even have been caught once, but can’t really help ourselves. I’m thinking that it’s going to be like that for at least 18 more months before we live by our own and it just makes me sad. What suggestions do you have to make the situation better or to cope with it? Thanks in advance
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Get your parents interested in hobbies and or shower them with gift certificates to get them out of the house 😅
Sext and/or FaceTime
Master the art of the ninja. Lock the room. Turn on the tv and louder music. Put the mattress on the floor to avoid creaking or banging noise. Try to be quite. Use the shower together. Maybe you can or already rent a storage unit or garage? Cellar or Attic? Have a picnic, go camping.
Well, 4 times a month is still roughly once a week, it’s not THAT bad. If you add to that the car, you guys seem to be having a decent amount of sex. I would say maybe talk to your parents openly about wanting some private time with your girlfriend and ask if they would be willing to go to the cinema every once in a while or do their grocery shopping in the hours she’s coming over, but if they say no, you can’t kick them out of their own house, they’re your parents after all and it’s their home.
I understand the relationship is still fresh and you’re horny a lot, but it doesn’t seem like much can be done here other than finding ways to time your dates to when one of you has their parents out of the house.
Edit: is there any way you could take weekend trips together even low budget ones, like going camping (getting kinda cold for that, but depending on where you live it might be possible) or something? You mentioned thinking about renting rooms for hours, but maybe a better option would just be a night at a hotel? Sure, it’s more expensive, but you don’t have to do it that often – maybe having an entire two days for yourselves in peace could help blow off some steam and be less horny for a while afterwards.