When you meet someone new what do you like to ask about?

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2. Do you have a penis? Can’t be too careless nowadays.

3. I would ask to look at the homepage of their YouTube account and look at their YouTube recommendations algorithm. Same for like other social media account that have a similar recommendations algorithm if they have (Tik Tok, Twitter, etc). The algorithm knows more about ourselves more than we like to admit it and it can easily shows where our interest lies.

4. It depends on the vibe I get from them. Not everyone is the same

5. To be or not to be

6. What’s your name? Where are they from? What type of stuff do they like to do for fun when they aren’t working?

   That’s a decent 2-5 minute convo right there and if there is chemistry, things will flow naturally. Even if it doesn’t flow naturally at first, these are still pretty good and safe questions to ask. Sometimes people get nervous, shy and you catch them off guard when chatting them up for the first time. Not everyone is socially outgoing, but most people are at least slightly open to speaking with a new person once they feel like you don’t want anything from them or have bad intentions.

   I’ve had girls act cold and stand offish towards me when I was chatting them up for the first time and it made me think they didn’t like me. But then I quite often would later find out they found me attractive, they are kinda shy, they like me and I kinda caught them off guard.

7. Who are you and why are you here?

8. Tequila. Or whiskey

9. Can you lend me 100$ ?

10. Basic manners, don’t ask questions while meeting someone for the first time. Keep it a friendly chat If you’re meeting a foreigner, asking where are you from is a good conversation starter

11. I like to ask their music taste, it’s not that intrusive but it gives me a good glimpse of a personality.

12. Any weapons on you?

13. Nothing

14. I usually start out by what you do for a living then branch off of that. I try and keep politics out but have come to the conclusion most people care about that more then therm self

15. I ask them if they like zebras. I’m not interested in people who hate zebras.

16. This is going to be a little random but if someone says they like hiking and camping consider asking them when was the last time they made smores usually turns into a conversation about random childhood memories and you’ll learn a little bit more about the person it can be kind of difficult to work it into a conversation but if it’s casually asked usually a good conversation starter but it’s not something that you bring up immediately

17. I just start with a obviously generic question like “what color is your toothbrush?” or “soooo how bout that weather eh?” And usually they laugh and it sparks some sort of conversation from there

18. What kind of dessert they like. I think you can get a decent insight into someone from their answer.

    Are they lactose/gluten intolerant? Do they like coffee? What food cultures are they into? Do they have a little old gramma that cooked a special dessert for them? Do they hate joy?

    If they hate joy-

    leave.

19. Depends on the context and the type of relationship I expect to have with them. But typically I let them reveal what’s import to them by what questions they lead with.

20. I’m an introvert, I don’t do this sort of things

21. When did you finished your college?

22. If it is a woman I am interested in, I would like to know what she likes to do or fantasizes about doing so I can plan my dates around that.

23. What kind of music do you listen to? You can tell a lot about a person by the music they listen to

24. Do you like butt stuff?

25. How many cats do you have? Because I have a lot of cats.