So I was talking to this girl she’s 27 I’m 24 for around a month the last few times she came over to my apartment last time I tried to have sex with her but she said she was on her period. The next week she was asking me to come over to her place instead of coming to mine all the time I agreed. and then the day before she ended up cancelling because her mom came in town a day earlier then expected then she was going out of town the next day. I tried to set something up for later she took a little longer then Normal to respond but then I get a message saying that she’s feels terrible having to say this but she’s starting a new job and doesn’t have time to date right now. I ended up talking with her on the phone for a little bit she was saying how she doesn’t want to waste my time but also she feels selfish doing this. Me personally I’m not gonna try to convince you to spend time with me. So I just left it like that. I don’t like to be pessimistic but do you think she was doing this cause she found another guy or the age thing or was this genuine. Either way I know if she wanted to she would spend time with me so it doesn’t really matter but it’s been a week and it’s kinda been bugging me. Is it worth reaching back out to her or just leaving it too?
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>So I was talking to this girl she’s 27 I’m 24
she never looked at you as a long term partner because of this, she always thought of you as short term
This woman is openly disrespecting you, wasting your time. Walk or keep getting walked on.
To me it sounds like she lost interest after you tried to have sex with her. But if that was the case she should of just immediately cut you off not lead you on like that