So I’m [19,M] speaking to this girl [18,F], she got out of a relationship a month ago and has said she’s over him. We were talking for a couple weeks called 2 times was good then went on a long date. It went well we kissed at the end had a very good connection everything seemed good. Next day we said it was good and we enjoyed our time together. A couple days later I asked how she feels about me and seeing me again she said I don’t want to rush anything. She’s been answering but I can tell she ain’t 100% and I’m now left on delivered for 16 hours so she gone distant.
Now obviously I feel she has mentally checked out for some reason and Ik I’m getting ignored. Or could this mean she likes me but is keeping her distance due to feelings? And genuinely wants to not rush things? It’s just confusing. I feel I might of been to nice but at the same time I’m not overly nice at all. Most of you are probs gonna say move on and I understand I’ve already started to do that.
What does this mean?
TL;DR: First date went good now says I don’t want to rush anything
2 comments
I would just take her at face value, no reason to doubt her. You’re overthinking it and as a result you’re not listening to her – girls will notice and find that unattractive. If you have any chance with her you need to just play it cool. Move on mentally but don’t advertise it to her.
Let her come to you if not then you have your answer , don’t pester her as it will messed up things . Dont put women on pedestal as they will sense and you will get your feeling hurt.