I have no confidence when talking to others, how do I fix this?

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1. Don’t judge yourself when talking. Read things related to the art of conversation. It takes time to get the hang of it, manuver situations and build experience based on previous interactions. Talk to yourself and see how that makes you feel, it takes a bit of shifting the way how much you show, what you are, and how much what you emphasize a topic you’d like to talk about.

   There are different types of conversations. So understanding those types of conversations will help you build confidence on engaging in conversations. Results will not always be satisfactory, even if one ends up being the best conversationalist in the group. There’s 2 things, the more aware you are in the social enviroment you are in, the better the chances you’ll know what to say or engage with people. Also, note that it doesn’t require much talking to slowly get to know someone. Sometimes asking, “Can I sit (here, there)?” Is one way to start, but its not a guarantee that something will happen between you and the receiver of that interaction. Just taking from experience.