I’ve tried to make online friends but everytime a person talks to me they disappear after one conversation,
What am i doing wrong? (I can upload screenshot of a conversation if needed) but we talk first time a regular conversation like how are what’s your name and age about things we love and share, and after the conversation is done they never talk to me again and i don’t know if i should try to text them cuz i have no idea if they didn’t liked me or are they waiting to me to respond? And if not I’m not wanna be annoying and make them talk to me without them wanting to talk.
Irl i have some friends but i never can be friends with anyone online and see how other people doing it easily and only I can’t do it. It’s also hard for me irl but if i see the person we do talk but online it’s never happening.
I have only moots on tiktok (only 2) that sometimes we give likes to each other but nothing more then that,
I’ve tried to post “i searching for friends” but i want also to start a conversation with people by just starting a conversation how do i do that without scaring everyone away?
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I didn’t want to make the post too long but i wanna learn how to start a friendship that will last more then 10 minutes, like if i see someone nice for example on tiktok hoe do i start a conversation with them that will leads us to be friends?
Maybe Y’all talk too much?
This is normal for internet conversations, dont beat yourself up about it. People aren’t really here for lasting and regular friends.
it happens bro dont stress it , ive read about these same situations on reddit
This is sad for so many reasons and i would hope your just trolling. The internet is a fake world, you need to build friendships in real time, not through logging onto some social app and texting or even virtually FaceTiming through a screen. The phone is your friend more than an actual human. More people get catfished, scammed, and build a false sense of connection through the internet than not. If you have real life friendships I can’t imagine why you’d yearn for more friendships online. I feel for this generation because you all missed out on actual human interaction especially since Covid . The internet is more real to you guys than having someone in sitting right in front of you. False senses of validation and belonging, it’s so sickening. Even in real time your not entitled to anyone becoming your friend. Social media actually isn’t social at all, if anything it keeps you in a pretentious shell. Keep the online talks to a minimum, especially with strangers. If it’s someone you’ve actually met before and want to further build with then try to meet around a common interest sooner than later