What do you expect your partner to do in a relationship?

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2. Be a great support and help out when you need them

3. To love me and put in equal effort.

4. What? Ehhh… stay alive?

5. Exist

6. Leave me.

7. Tell me when her boyfriend is here so I can watch.

8. Not have sex or sexual contact with anyone else.

9. Live their life but with mine also

10. Communicate what she wants using words found in a dictionary of a language we both speak.

    “I want to go for more walks together.” This is good. This is clear, comprehensible and actionable. Let’s go for a walk. Wanna stroll around the neighborhood or head to the greenway?

    Having a total shit fit because I didn’t hear all the times you thought to yourself you wanted to go on a walk but didn’t say it out loud, because I should have “just known?” Less good, much more common though.

11. Carry her end of the stick without being bitchy

    Speak directly and clearly and honestly about what she wants/needs/likes.

    Be positive

12. Just be there and show me that she cares about me as much as I care about her

13. occasionally suck my wiener

14. Make my Johnson hard and life soft

15. To not kill me

16. Whatever I tell her to do

17. Just being there for me.