I 21f am currently married to my husband and we’ve had the topic of threesomes come up around us a lot from his brother in law. His brother in law wants his wife to have a 3way and tells her to ask me how good pussy is (I’ve never been with a woman sexually). I told him that I’ve had girlfriends but all were long distance the one I did meet didn’t even bother trying to kiss me instead she slapped me at the gas station. I’ve never had that experience. When we slept in the same bed together I did get turned on but nothing happened other than cuddling. I’d love to be with a woman but I couldn’t do a threesome. I can only be with one person and couldn’t imagine my husband or me being with someone else like that. My husband has told me before I could have a girlfriend but I can’t do that to him. I can’t bring myself to cheat like that. I guess I’m just confused about if I truly like women or not and if I should bother telling my husband or not. What should I do? If you were in my shoes would you just ignore how you’re feeling or what? I’m sexually confused and don’t know how to move forward from it.
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If you’re married to your husband and don’t want to cheat, don’t want a girlfriend, and don’t want a threesome, then it doesn’t matter whether you find women attractive. You’ve made the decision that you’re only going to be with your husband, so there’s no need to decide on a label (e.g. bi) for yourself.