I find myself paying a lot of attention to my and their body language so much that I end up not really hearing what they say, I will pick out a few key words that I heard and then “connect the dots” and infer what they mean. Sometimes however, I find that I can’t just “connect the dots”. Sometimes my inferences are wrong or I lose complete track of the topic of the conversation, eg. I sometimes miss out on the meaning of a conversation because I am too concentrated on the process of conversation rather than the actual content of the conversation.
Help???