Me 26(F) have had a huge crush for my roommate 23(M) for a few months. We have always had a cordial and polite relationship but never really spent time together. However a few nights ago he invited me to go drinking with with him and his friend in his room. Since then I feel the we got a step closer. I believe there might even be a bit of sexual tension in the air. How can I move things forward? He is super reserved and loves spending time alone. How could I show him I am attracted to him without being overwhelming?
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Ask him if he wants to help you make dinner or something. Or pretend like you have friends coming over for dinner, invite him to join, prepare dinner yourself & then say your ‘friends’ cancelled last minute, and I feel like there’s a good chance he’d be happy to help you finish all the food thennnnn ask him to watch a movie or something after 🙂 it sounds stupid but I feel like it could work hahaha
What are you looking for? I think you can hookup with him but you will make things awkward
Invite him to do activities with you. If he’s interested in you he’ll say yes to spend time with you.
Just invite him out to dinner. Fwiw, don’t really recommend messing with roommates. Similar to co workers, it usually makes it awkward if it ends badly.
Just ask him out on a date / say you want date him
Simple
Men aren’t complicated
Ooh thank you for the replies! I am a hit scared of rejection but at the same time there is nothing to loose right? I will ask him to have dinner together. Also, I just want a fun hook up. That can’t be harmful right? Right? 😅