I’ve been having consistently mind-blowing, mutually earth shattering sex with a guy (we are exclusive but not dating yet) for a while now. He introduced me to a “breeding kink” I didn’t know I had, and I really feel it’s taken over my brain. I’m on birth control and in my late 20s but I have literally never been hornier. Ever since this new found obsession with having him cum inside me, it’s like a part of me literally craves it now and I feel a hollowness without it (crazy sounding, I know). I don’t understand what is going on but my lizard brain has taken over and makes me obsess a little too much over when I will get filled up again.

How do I overcome this strong desire?

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  3. Why would you need to? There are scientific studies that show cum gives us happy chemicals

  5. My wife and I have enjoyed this for nearly 40 years. Both of us would hate to give it up. I’m not sure if we could anyway, it seems to be hardwired.

  6. I’m the same way, girl. Absolutely love having cum inside me, but I’m married, on birth control, and my husband is considering a vasectomy (neither of us want kids). Like others have said, it is hardwired into us to like it. Embrace it!

  8. If you’re both monogamous and std free, what’s the problem? I’m not sure that’s even a kink if you’re on birth control. It’s just sex as the way it was intended to be.

  9. I mean, you probably have a baby fever as well 😅 I’m in my mid 20s and I am going through the same thing

  10. And take it to the next level. Start with a condom on, then let yourselves get so riled up you throw caution to the wind and rip it off and just go to town.

  13. It’s funny how enjoying factory settings sex is now considered a kink, though I suppose it can be called that when you fetishise it. It’s what we’ve been hardwired to do for millions of years, it’s your body doing what it was made to do. But just as well, if you’re not into it it doesn’t mean you’re somehow broken or “not as designed”.

    But I get it. I’m not on birth control but also having casual sex so condoms are non-negotiable and I sometimes fantasise about settling down with one guy so I could have all of him. The intimacy, the primal attraction, the “taboo” of it all because it carries that inherent risk of pregnancy, which in turn is an ultimate form of giving yourself to someone mentally and physically… It’s a mind fuck of the best kind.

  14. 1000000% the exact same here. I didn’t even want kinds.. but someone introduced me to breeding party porn and I was instantly hooked and begging to be bred with anyone I fucked.

    As far as overcoming it… when you find out let me know 😹

  15. A breeding kink is if the thought of getting pregnant turns you on. Lots of people call a cream pie or raw sex kink a breeding kink and it’s kinda lost it’s true meaning.

    Wanting raw sex is super common. It’s amazing. Part of it for me is actually a cum kink. I get off on seeing all of the sex juices. Whatever it is, you just gotta be safe and not let it take over.

  16. I dont know if it is a breeding kink, but my wife has always liked me to cum in her. Like even when we didn’t want kids yet and it was risky. She says she just loves the way my cum feels inside her. I ain’t gonna complain, cumming inside her is way better feeling than cumming elsewhere, and infinitely better than using a condom. I got a vasectomy so we have no worries about her actually getting pregnant.

  17. That’s how it was when my husband and I began dating and the sexual chemistry between us was just insane. It eventually did lead to an unplanned pregnancy and that’s how my son got here! So, yeah, just be careful.

  19. I’m pretty sure I’ve got the breeding kink so I can attest to how much more satisfying I find sex when he finishes inside me. To be fair he’s my husband and we now have 3 babies but still. 😜 I effin love it. Plus, there’s this chemical reaction in a woman’s body/brain when your man finishes inside (no coat). It has it’s trade offs but I just feel like if you can swing safe sex without the barriers it’s better. I enjoy making him cum no matter what but this is the cherry for me. 🍒

  20. Breeding kink? You mean wanting to have babies with someone you’re attracted to? Don’t think that’s a kink that’s called being a human

  21. I hate to be that one asshole but I genuinely want to know what does it mean to be “exclusive” but not dating yet?

  23. Best contraceptive in the world is when you get a baby who never seems to sleep properly for years and is needy and clingy for you constantly lol. Yeah I was mad about sex with my husband – the chemistry was so good. Wanted his babies, etc. For me, there was no better birth control than my 3rd and final child – this baby wouldn’t sleep for more than 2 hrs at a stretch for the first 3 years of his life, then he would wake up crying, screaming and needing me at least twice every night for the next 5 yrs of his life… 😅 I was always thinking I’d be happy to have 4, but cos of him, I stopped at 3. I think my son was born with a special mission in life – but I love him to bits and can’t imagine life without him. Yes he actively competed with his daddy for my love and attention for the first 10yrs of his life. He’s a teen now, very self assured and confident and sensible boy. I am so proud of him, but I also know all the blood, sweat and tears raising him wasn’t for nothing. And he has given me back to my husband – he doesn’t cling to me anymore, so I’ve been able to spend a lot more one to one with my husband and it’s been great, like falling in love again.. but my husband and I now know we really don’t want another kid 😀 So I started taking the pill and we can have sex as much as we want without the worry of potentially another baby who doesn’t sleep lol We’re both in our 40s, I feel like I spent half my life raising babies, and I am done with that.

  25. Think about being trapped coordinating and working with him as either a co parent or a single mom. Think about what pregnancy will do to your body image and your feeling of being desirable. Think about the health risks of pregnancy. Imagine him not appreciating your sacrifices, most of all. This usually completely destroys my desire to be ejaculated in 👸🏼

  26. Then you could also be into some gangbang stuff, where multiple people come inside. The sperm then acts as a lubricant for other cocks, and everything is constantly spilling out. Being a cum-dumpster, taken in all the holes, and filled and covered with cum all other your body.

  27. I think this is a natural desire for both women and men. Breeding kink is often associated with men.

    But as a woman, being pumped full of cum is satisfying and intimate. If I’m into a guy, I crave his sperm too. The last guy I dated who came inside me loved that I needed his ejaculations inside me. We broke up because he moved away, but we both still reminisce about our shared love of breeding.

  28. Definitely be cautious so you don’t get an unwanted pregnancy. I definitely enjoy sex much more when I can cum inside though.. it’s a big let down having to pull out and the sensation is very mild compared to inside. IUD can be great if it works for you.

  29. It’s makes me feel better knowing that I am not the only one who has this kink this badly. Something about the bond it creates along with the sense of domination drives me wild.

  32. Why do you want to overcome a desire you are enjoying? Guilt/Shame? Pregnancy concerns?

    I’m not sure there’s a problem here? Maybe you can say more of why this is worrying you?

  34. A breeding kink is a kink w the purpose of impregnating you. Whether you keep the pregnancy or not. So I’d be careful bc in nmy exp there’s a fine line between its hot to have them cum inside you and other fucked up stuff. In the meanwhile just be sure you’re both stdi free and not having unprotected sex w other people 😉

  36. I’d say don’t get over it! I have that kink and it’s really fun. Just enjoy yourself! You’re being responsible by being on birth control so again- just have fun!

  37. Be safe have great sex with people you can fully express your desires with no matter how outlandish thet seem know the risks . Deal with he consequences . Life is too short not to do what gets you off . You’ll peak later on still feeling you didn’t experience enough .

  42. Honest question: is this not exactly the job of birthcontrol? I thought this is normal sex.

  43. I’ll never understand why the natural urge to get pregnant is now called “breeding kink.” Like wat that’s not some kink that’s just biology.

  44. Just going to say that, you’re not weird for being more driven to have sex now that you’ve found what you really love in that area.
    I wish I could find mine. Lol as a true adhd person I got bored with some of my other kinks. Which has caused my sex drive to plummet and I hate it.
    Consider this a gift. 😂

  45. This is why I had to get my tubes removed. 🤣
    It NEVER feels the same unless he nuts inside me. Resulted in 4 kids in under 8 years though, our kink got super expensive 🤣
    I always thought I’d be all “cum on my face daddy” BUT NO. It’s all in or nothing.
    I’m so glad we all have such a great appreciation for cum. 🤣

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