30F.
I seem to lose interest in people I casually date after three months, it’s not that I don’t have fun, or aren’t into them. I am but in friendship, though my issue is I can’t talk/see/hook up with others while I’m “seeing” someone. So I kind of get distant and slowly disappear? I don’t wanna be this way, I like the person I’m seeing but I’m seeing the pattern arise, I’m already becoming cold and detached. Talked to a friend about this the other day she asked if I was self sabotaging and I don’t think I am. Anyone relate? Or is this temporary feelings…
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Nobody will know from this much of information. It will be like that until you resolve your own internal issues. It will not stop on its own.
“my issue is i cant talk see hookup with others while seeing someone”….why would you even think that is acceptable….just dont date or be in a relationship…just talk see and hookup with people…simple solution
sounds like bpd
Lol
Don’t date until you get some of this stuff under control