I (20m) have had feelings for a girl (21f) since high school. We hung out and talked quite often but I was always too nervous to tell her how I felt, and since graduating we have grown apart. I am now a junior in college and still have feelings for this girl. Recently, I’ve been debating if I should tell her how I feel as the thought of not knowing if she possibly feels the same way is killing me. But at the same time I think I should save myself the embarrassment of ‘confessing my feelings’ and just move on with my life. What should I do?
P.S. Her birthday is coming up in several days, so I’m thinking I might try and meet up with her to celebrate and catch up. I hate to ask the same question, but again, what should I do?
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You miss 100% of the opportunities you don’t take. Just be prepared for the fact that she may not be interested, and your relationship/ friendship may change.