I’m afab/nb, 21. My boyfriend is male and 21. We’ve been together for 8 months now.
I’m severely disabled with chronic pain, and this past month have been having issues with my iud/reproductive system. Because of this penetrative sex isn’t really an option at the moment.
I like giving head, but not receiving. That said, my boyfriend is quite big and I can’t give head for very long before my cheeks start to hurt too much.
For toys I currently have a womanizer, which I love. It works great.
If it helps, I’m a switch and he’s a bottom. In the past I’ve been down for almost anything but he’s super innocent and vanilla.
What toys would you guys reccomend?
TLDR: looking for new toys to use while I can’t have penetrative sex
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Go to r/sex lol
I think this is a great time for you and your boyfriend to head off to the adult store and to just explore the inventory. If it’s not too busy you can grab a staffer and they are usually happy to discuss different merchandise with you.
If you don’t quite feel comfortable, you and your boyfriend explore the website together and talk about the different products and then maybe head inside once you have narrowed things down, and if you have any specific questions.
You need to peg this boy.
Have a look at a site like LoveHoney together. Make a wish list together and choose one thing to buy to start with