apparently im decently attractive so i can attract girls once in a while for flings and relationships. usually we just hangout at their or my home, have sex. i dont go out with them too often (im broke and busy with uni), sometimes we go out to eat to go to the cinema. but all in all im less the type to go out and party and prefer to stay in.
now obviously girls who are looking to make friends dont want to go over to a guys house to watch Netflix lmao. i would honestly like having female friends but i dont really know what to actually physically do with them??? I also dont like it when people live physically close but we never meetup and just text but thats fine when we live in different countries, so i have some female online friends.
i did meetup with 2 girls from dating apps who were looking to make friends but nothing came out of that.
with my male friends back from high school i rarely see them, only every few months max. We drive around, hangout at home or go to the gym together.
any advice?
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If you’re at Uni there’s probably all kinds of free events and parties to go to. That’s what hanging out is, and ladies are just as happy with that as dudes. And rather than suggesting just Netflix, pick a certain show or movie and invite a whole mixed group around. Have popcorn and some two-liters.
I think what you describe in your first paragraph is flings and booty calls. If you never go anywhere and put in no effort, it’s not a gf. It’s a fuckbuddy.