So, I’d love to know any pointers or advice you guys can give me for preparing to get eaten out by the 20M guy I’m dating. We had our first sexual encounter the other day, and I gave him the first Blowjob I had ever given anyone, made him cum, I swallowed, we had a good time. But, I was too shy to let him finger me at the time, unless it was through my pants, and he’s pretty good at it even without touching skin. So, our next date, I’m not sure how it’ll go but I know he has a fingering and eating out kink that he wanted to pursue with me and I’m excited for it but it was just that I wanted to be prepared for it.
So, do you guys have any advice for preparing to get tongued down, lol? I know the gist, but what should I know and prepare for?
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Nothing too special. Shower and maybe trim or touch up the pubic hair a little if you feel it’s appropriate.
So we’re clear: I don’t mind shaven, I don’t mind bush. Both are hot in their own way. I DO mind stuble: it’s just uncomfortable.
Every guy is different but if he has a real passion for pussy eating, he probably won’t care whether it is clean, showered this morning or post-gym workout (my favourite!)
Take ur time. Many ppl take a while to finish, it’s super normal. Don’t focus on orgasm, relax, the key focus is enjoying urself. Know that he’s doing this as an expression of affection for u.
Try to use ur words. If u like something say something. “More” “Like that” “right there” “don’t stop”. U don’t have to over do it this will be new to u, but any guidance will greatly improve what he can do for u.
If u end up with any feelings on insecurity, (eg: I hope I taste ok) ask him. Guaranteed he’ll it’ll put ur concern to rest.
Edit to add: I recommend having relaxing music (I use lofi hiphop). Itll keep u out of ur own head, gives him a beat to work with and (lofi) has no lyrics, so tends to not be too intrusive or distracting.
Just be clean and maybe trimmed, you’re good to go. Just enjoy yourself!! Do not worry about chumming or whatever. If he enjoys giving oral, let him!
No prepping! Most guys want their lover’s natural scent