Hello, so a short backstory to this.
For abt 14 months I’ve been taking lexapro for my mental health. During that time I was still masturbating and I did notice a longer period before I was able to climax and lower sex drive. I(26m) recently had sex with my gf(25f)for the first time. I’m still able to get hard and usually quite sensitive at the beginning when she’s giving me a Bj . But when I condom up, I’m not able to feel anything and I think I got numb because we kept going at it until I was able to cum but I couldn’t. In the end she had to jack me off super fast just to finish. Which felt like 15 mins.
I’m not sure if it’s the medication or maybe because I’m desensitized from masturbating in the past. This was my first time having sex. I just felt really bad cause she kept trying and I just wanted to give up and stop.
Is there anything I can do to test myself if it’s maybe death grip syndrome or something else? Thanks in advance
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A lot can go wrong on the first time, I wouldn’t worry to much about it for now.
You are stressed, it’s your first time, together with a person, getting the condom in can be a hassle.
There is a possibility that it can have something to do with your medication.
A condom itself has the con of you feeling less, in comparison to a blowjob without a condom it will feel like two different worlds.
If it’s a problem you keep experiencing then go to the doctor who gave you the medicine and talk to him about that problem and ask him if it could have to be a side effect.