Hi there,
So I am a grad school in the US (Fall 2022). I want to start dating here but I have significant self-esteem issues. I have been a survivor of extreme physical and emotional abuse at the hands of my family. I have also suffered some sexual abuse.
I am in the US now, away from family, and want to build relationships. I don’t have any sexual experience. Have some dating experience but it was only the women who initiated the relationships and asked me out, I myself have been usually passive in forming relationships. Still, I have problems developing relationships with people.
How do I start dating here, I am in therapy for two years and have been healing from the trauma although still a long road ahead.
I am completely clueless about the dating process lol, whether it is online or offline.
What are the best places to meet women (in non-academic)?
About myself, I am of a slightly muscular build, and a glorious mustache lol although a bit short 5’7″. I like watching movies, reading books (fiction and nonfiction), weight training (although I am not finding much time these days, but will make amends soon), and bike and car rides (don’t have any in the US). I am a good public speaker but not the best in interpersonal relationships.
I would also like to know some unwritten norms in the dating process.